Do u always need a guy to be ur best friend, who will make u happy, who will make u feel comfortable around him, who u think will understand u better ( or u understand him better than anyone? )?? Why is there such differentiation between ur so-called best friends who are girls and ur best-friends who are boys?
When that guy who u claimed to be ur best friend broke ur heart to pieces, u need ur girl friends to complaint n cry. When they want to cheer u up, u refuse to cheer urself, refuse to go out with them. But, will happily go out with that same guy who broke ur heart that very moment bcos he is still ur best friend and u will be happy with him leaving behind those who were there for u when u needed a shoulder to cry on... Why? Why not for once teach him a lesson? Why giving him the impression that u r not ok without him around? Why giving him an opportunity to think u r dependent on him? Why do u have to go out with him, then come back n cry again cos its a de javu?! Memories?! And then cry thinking things are not going to be same anymore???
GIRLS!!! What's got into ur mind? What's wrong going out with that poor girlfriends of urs who are trying to pull u out of the pain? What's wrong in putting some effort to response to those who sincerely want u to be happy, independent and prove to those guys that they are all WRONG?!?! What's wrong in appreciating those who are with u during ur difficult time?
I know u need time to sort things out when u r heart broken.. Then take the time. Involve in activities which will divert u. Why would u want to do things which will delay the healing of the old "wound"? Grow up, ladies!!
If YOU want to change, u can make a difference. If u want to cuddle up in that old memories expecting that everything will come back to normal when u know it wont, that is pure foolishness!! You can cherish the good old memories and try making new ones with the ones u have with u. The only person who can help u is YOU! Others can only feed u, but u r the one who have to chew and swallow. Don't lose the ones u have thinking abt the ones who have left!!
