Blame?

You are what u think you are. No one make yourself. You decide who you want to be. When someone is out of their path or in a wrong path in their life, automatically the blame goes to the parents. Everyone will blame the parents that they are irresponsible in raising the child. Of course, the parents are responsible to mould the child since young as they are considered a white clean cloth then. Even then, parents can only guide. They will teach what u need in life and make sure u practice them while u are with them. We as a kid, will just follow. But all these will only last up to certain age when we start asking why for each and everything we are doing and will be thinking why not for something we aren't doing. That's called curiosity. There is a saying says. "Curiosity kills a cat". We are curious about everything new and want to try. That's when everything start changing.. We will decide what to do and what not to do. If what you are doing is right for you, you will continue doing or else you stop that and either you just continue other things which you were doing earlier or to substitute the stopped activity you start doing something which you aren't doing but u think it's right to do. So, u see from that point where we start thinking why and why not we start deciding our lives. So, how we want our lives to be is in our hands now. That's why, I said earlier what u think is what you are. If u think you want to excel in music studies, u will find a way and work hard towards it. Where there is a will, there is a way. Now, parents can only show you how. Whether u want to follow that or not, it is up to u. so, there's no point blaming everyone for our own failures in life. If there's someone you want to blame, that is YOU!!!